Taking responsibility vs. blaming ourself

Taking responsibility vs. blaming ourself

Taking responsibility for something is not the same thing as blaming ourself for it. Taking responsibility says, “I see my part in this, and I know how to create a more desirable result next time.” This is empowerment. Self blame says, “I screwed up and I’m going to...
The Hidden Relationship Between Addiction And Alignment

The Hidden Relationship Between Addiction And Alignment

Most humans are addicted to something… alcohol, tobacco, caffeine, drugs, food, sex, drama, Facebook, worrying. There is no shame in having an addiction because almost everyone has at least one. For the sake of this post, I’m defining addiction as anything we...
The Problem With Focusing On The Problem

The Problem With Focusing On The Problem

I’m inspired to speak to a pattern I’ve witnessed in myself and others, because I’ve had some recent revelations that could be useful for those who are struggling with something big. Here’s what I’ve observed. When there’s an apparent problem in our lives, especially...
How To Grieve

How To Grieve

I’ve been feeling the collective grief so strongly lately, and I feel called to share some valuable lessons I’ve learned for myself about grieving, in case they are supportive for you too: 1 – Do not try to resist the grief. I am either feeling it fully, or it...
How To Choose A Coach, Guide Or Mentor

How To Choose A Coach, Guide Or Mentor

Over the years, dozens of people have emailed me because they had a reading with another Vedic Astrologer who told them something scary and traumatic, or was incredibly vague, while still being very expensive. I love reading for these people because I don’t do either...