Taking responsibility for something is not the same thing as blaming ourself for it. Taking responsibility says, “I see my part in this, and I know how to create a more desirable result next time.” This is empowerment. Self blame says, “I screwed up and I’m going to...
I cringe whenever I hear someone say “it’s all love and light” in response to, well, pretty much anything. This is especially true if it’s in response to someone’s suffering. This concept, like many others, has been twisted and adulterated by people who haven’t taken...
Most humans are addicted to something… alcohol, tobacco, caffeine, drugs, food, sex, drama, Facebook, worrying. There is no shame in having an addiction because almost everyone has at least one. For the sake of this post, I’m defining addiction as anything we...
I’m inspired to speak to a pattern I’ve witnessed in myself and others, because I’ve had some recent revelations that could be useful for those who are struggling with something big. Here’s what I’ve observed. When there’s an apparent problem in our lives, especially...
I’ve been feeling the collective grief so strongly lately, and I feel called to share some valuable lessons I’ve learned for myself about grieving, in case they are supportive for you too: 1 – Do not try to resist the grief. I am either feeling it fully, or it...
Over the years, dozens of people have emailed me because they had a reading with another Vedic Astrologer who told them something scary and traumatic, or was incredibly vague, while still being very expensive. I love reading for these people because I don’t do either...
Being an entrepreneur brings up all of our self worth, confidence and commitment issues… over and over again. There’s no way to avoid it – running our own business is one of the most powerful medicine paths we can choose. It’s important to remember this at all times, to avoid destructive magical thinking that kills …
Taking responsibility for something is not the same thing as blaming ourself for it. Taking responsibility says, “I see my part in this, and I know how to create a more desirable result next time.” This is empowerment. Self blame says, “I screwed up and I’m going to punish myself for it.” This is disempowering. …
I’ve been seeing a disturbing trend of posts and articles asking people to stop using the word karma to explain reality, because it’s hurtful to those who’ve had a difficult experience and feel blamed or shamed for it. I truly honor all of us who have had to go through some seriously traumatic experiences. And …
“I just wish I could find a business partner to handle the whole money side of things so I can focus on my passion, helping people.” “I am going to hire someone to do my sales and marketing because my personality type isn’t good at that stuff.” “I’ve got too much Feminine energy to be …
The other night I was contemplating whether or not photos, writing, and audio/video recordings of us carry any of our consciousness with them (also, yes, I recently watched Black Mirror, so this topic was fresh in my mind!) While these creations do not have self awareness, they do transmit our consciousness anytime someone interacts with …